My Type

Well, let's see here. I've been meaning to make a blog for a while now on "My Type". But I want to clarify something, I don't mean the type of sub/slave/man that I go for. What I mean is the type of Domme that I am. 

First and foremost, I am a person. Yup! Just a regular person! I have hopes and dreams and fears, peeves and likes, turn-off's and turn-on's. There are things that immediately annoy me, and things that will make me interested right off the bat. In this post I intend to gloss over a little bit of everything I just mentioned, and probably a little more.

First thing's first. I am a 21 year-old Canadian grown girl. Grew up in a small town until I moved to the "big city" for school to pursue my Commerce Degree. I plan on opening a candy store one day (though this is a life goal, so I don't plan on accomplishing it any time soon). I'm not afraid of spiders, though I sure don't like them. I suffer from depression sometimes (if the internet is to be believed), and sometimes it sucks. I own my home and am the landlord to my roommates, so I understand responsibility. I also own/manage a small business that I started in Jan 2011. I know what it's like to want something and need to work hard for it. If you want to get in with me, you will need to work to make the relationship work. Any sort of relationship is a two-way street, and if you come across that you are expecting me to do all of the work for you, you will be sorely disappointed. 

Some major pet peeves of mine include bad English and grammar. If you're sending me a message for the first time, make it presentable. You want it to give a good impression don't you? I also hate when I will clearly state something in a place where it's easy to see, and someone who is trying to gain my attention hasn't even bothered to read it (for example, where I state on my CollarSpace profile that I regularly check messages via my phone, but wait until I am on the computer to reply, and then have people see that their message is "read" and an hour or two later send a message like, "I guess you don't have time for me *sulk sulk sulk*." That's pathetic, don't do it).

Also, solicited sex talk. Don't do it. It's annoying and generally unwanted, especially if you bring up how you're playing with your sad excuse of a cock with the expectation that I will lead you in your "play time" session. Immediate turn-off. 

 

I love reading and regularly draw, sew, and sing. I also play the piano. I hope that people I associate myself with are creative in some way. I have the goal to build a friendship with any sub that I take on so that the relationship actually has some substance to it. If all I do is help get you off, what does that give me? Nothing. Yes, I love control, but that gets old. I want substance.

If you want me to take you on, expect some writing assignments/tasks in the beginning. 

"But why beautiful Goddess? I don't understand. Writing is hard."

Because I want to know you better, to know if we are compatible. I want to know if you have the intellect to give me what I need from the relationship. I want to know if I can be the right Mistress for you. Plus, my memory is terrible and I need to have a hard copy to refer to once in a while.